Dear “Msue”:

When I hear the words, “It’s ruining our marriage”, a concerned red flag goes up.  If there is an issue which stands out that is “ruining a marriage” my first advice is to seek marital counseling.  You see, it generally is not about one issue alone, especially when that issue is about sex.  In counseling, couples have the opportunity to understand what the true issues are

Dear Connie:

Have you ever noticed how much easier it is to make a decision when you have enough information about the situation?  Simply put, you need more information.  The best way to do this is not by interpreting his words or actions positively or negatively but by communicating directly with him.  Communicating from a clear and

Dear “Snowbuni”:

It’s really simple.  Your boyfriend is telling you his truth. He is telling you he doesn’t want to get married, he wants to date.  The problem arises when we as women do not listen.  My question back to you would be

Dear “Linda”:

To answer this question, the place to start is opening your mind up to the possibility that you cannot “fix” anyone.  It is allowing yourself to come to the understanding that there is not another person alive that you can “fix”.  In fact, placing  your efforts on “fixing” needs not to be with your spouse, but with you!