Dear Torngirl,

Your feelings are your feelings and are valid. If you are feeling as if you want to have more time together in the relationship then that is what is right for you. Therefore, the answer is no you are not over reacting. The real question, in your long distance relationship, turns into is it feasible or realistic to spend more time together. If it is, and your boyfriend chooses not do to this, this becomes a problem for the relationship, which needs to be addressed immediately.