Dear Ss16978:

The fact that you started your sentence off with, “I love my husband” is great.  It tells me that there is a solid foundation to work with.  You see when we love, we are able to look past all the unhealed parts of someone and look at who they truly are; a magnificent and wondrous creation.  Now to get to how you get past him driving you crazy…it’s simple! You stop looking at him and you turn your focus inwardly at yourself each and every time he drives you crazy. You see Ss16978, these are the exact times in which you have the amazing opportunity to learn about yourself.  If he is “driving” you crazy it really is that he is “mirroring” something to you within yourself which needs your attention.  So the next time he drives you crazy, stop and ask yourself, “What is within me that is reacting to him this way?”. You will be amazed at what you find out about yourself!